Flashback Friday

Almost 10years ago, I got this email from my ex-bf's ex. I should have treated that as a sign but I still held on to my then love of my life...

In my defense, I sincerely didn't know that they were still together. Perhaps I was too trusting and too stupid.

Needless to say, he's now out of my life and the one who sent me the email above and I became 'friends' 

🚺 Piper 

What I told Mr Ex-Rebound

Two years ago, I was in a serious, romantic long-distance relationship. Prior to it being an LDR, we (he and I) were practically together everyday until I had to leave for a dream that I have long been praying even before I met him (although I did tell him about this when we met)...

LDR went well at the the beginning until such time that I was the ONLY one putting effort and well he, was putting effort alright, but not for me, to another woman. My last message to him after all has been said and done is the one below...




"LEARN TO STAY IN ONE. A relationship isn't only good for the happy parts. You stay for everything. You make it work and not give up. You communicate and try to compromise. You don't highlight the mistakes that have long been forgiven for rather you move on. You wait like you promised. You don't go searching for another one just because you feel 'lonely'. You don't abruptly end one so that you can just conveniently go into another."

★ Piper ★